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4 Ways to Keep Your Cool When You’re Married to a Hypochondriac

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  4 Ways to Keep Your Cool When You’re Married to a Hypochondriac                                                          Being in a relationship with a hypochondriac entails more than just putting up with "the man cold." When he gets dust in his eye and has to go to the ER. Or when someone ELSE'S diagnosis of hypothyroidism sends her racing to the doctor for a complete panel of bloodwork. Or when your child's playground scratch prompts him to look up "Tetanus vaccinations for toddlers" on the internet. However, there is a medium ground between feeding into someone's never-ending, worried cycle of illnesses and dismissing their suffering completely (not cool). And yes, there are methods to have a good relationship with a worrier. Let's see how many there are. KNOW THAT HE’S NOT FAKING Hypochondria, also known as "...

The Beginner's Guide to Being Happy Alone

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  The Beginner's Guide to Being Happy Alone Before we get into the specifics of how to be happy alone, it's crucial to note that being alone doesn't have to imply loneliness. You may be alone and lonely at the same time, but the two don't necessarily have to go together. Short-term tips to get you started                                         These pointers can assist you in getting started. They won't make your life better overnight, but they can help you become more at ease with being alone.           Some of these could be just what you've been looking for. Others may be incomprehensible to you. They can be used as stepping stones. To fit your own lifestyle and personality, add to and shape them along the road. 1. Avoid comparing yourself to others Avoid comparing your social life to anyone else's. This is easier said than done. ...

08 Signs You’re on the Right Path in Life

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  08 Signs You’re on the Right Path in Life Have you ever questioned whether or not you're on the proper track in life? I believe everyone has done that at some point in their lives. If you think about it, you've undoubtedly observed that when things are going well, you don't spend much time considering this subject. That's because when you're on the correct track, you have a sense of calm that doesn't feel like it has to be questioned. You simply go with the flow, without doubt, because everything appears to be working out as it should. Some individuals describe it as a feeling of knowing that everything is just as it should be. Even if you're on the correct route, you may feel as if your life is going nowhere, and you'll find yourself with little energy and no genuine enthusiasm for the things you used to be passionate about. Here are some indicators that you're on the correct track in life: 1. Things start aligning for you When you're on a pat...

Why are Men so Selfish?

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  Why are Men so Selfish? Earlier today, I was discussing with my wife the issue of "why are guys so selfish." It arose as a result of the writer's block I'd been experiencing for several days. We had a wonderful hour-long discussion about this issue, and I can honestly say that putting my ego aside for an hour was eye-opening. I just had to; some of what she was saying was difficult to hear, but I believe it was important. What can you be if you can't be openly honest in a marriage, right? As a guy, I appear to be selfish in that I prioritize my wants over those of our family. Isn't it cruel of me to say that? I presume you're picturing me going out with my man pals, partying, and leaving Natalie, barefoot and pregnant, at home, right? It doesn't necessarily imply that I, or any other man for that matter, are narcissists. But it's lot more complicated than that, and I believe she has a legitimate argument. Being a selfish man She was telling me ab...

9 important things to remember to stay strong and love yourself again after a tough break-up

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  9 important things to remember to stay strong and love yourself again after a tough break-up                  Breaking up with a toxic person might seem like your entire life is collapsing around you. While you will finally feel free of their grip, it will take some time. Abuse relationships can be extremely difficult to quit due to a phenomenon known as trauma bonding. The abuser would have made you feel that you can't live without them over time, especially if they are a narcissist.      You will, however, eventually realize how much better off you are without them in your life, and you will be better prepared for future relationships.      You probably failed to look for yourself during the unhealthy relationship. After a toxic relationship ends, David Brudö, CEO and creator of the mental well-being and personal development app Remente, told Business Insider that there are numerous method...

5 Essentials to Having a Healthy Relationship

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  5 Essentials to Having a Healthy Relationship           At One Love, we're committed to educating people about the differences between a good and unhealthy relationship. Healthy connections make you feel good and lift you up, but toxic relationships make you feel bad and might even make you miserable. While most of our #ThatsNotLove material focuses on describing harmful habits, we also want to show you what it takes to have a healthy relationship.                           Everyone deserves to be in a happy, healthy relationship, and with the proper partner at their side, this is very possible. Here are 5 keys for maintaining a healthy relationship if you want to be that #relationshipgoals couple. 1. Communication                          "Communication is crucial," you've almost certainly heard. ...

5 Ways To Tell Your Partner They’ve Gained Weight Without Hurting Their Feelings

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  5 Ways To Tell Your Partner They’ve Gained Weight Without Hurting Their Feelings           If you've come to this post seeking help, it's safe to conclude there isn't a simple solution. There's no simple way to break someone's heart, and there's no easy way to convey terrible or sad news to someone you care about. And bringing out to your spouse that they may have become a little unwell during the epidemic fits squarely into that category.                               You see, no matter how concerned you are, pointing out someone's shortcoming is going to hurt. However, knowing when to speak up in a relationship, especially when it is for the sake of your partner's health, is one of the more difficult pills to swallow. Don't get us wrong: we're not saying this to brag. The goal is to promote a healthy body type rather than one that is attractive to men. And if ...